5 Steps to Flirting With Women

Guy flirting with three womenMost men can be quite terrible when it comes to flirting skills. They are easily fooled into mistaking lustful signs for real attraction. Learning to flirt is the secret to meeting, attracting and dating women that are more beautiful.

However, flirting techniques can only be useful if practiced in the rightful way. Below is a description of five steps necessary to create fun and flirtatious vibes that excite women.

1. Get playful

Think of flirting as a game and allow women to figure you out as a playful guy. Most women hate spending their time with nervous and boring guys. Women are easily convinced to put their guard down and open up more as soon as they realize they are dealing with a fun guy. Avoid making the game too easy lest she gets bored and disinterested in your moves.

For instance, you could say to her “you are totally awesome just like my little sister”. The first part of your statement makes the woman feel your interest in her. However, the second part throws her into a loop that keeps her guessing and making uncertain assumptions.

You can also get playful by asking open-ended questions that keep the conversation flowing. Be smooth and suave since she does not yet have a real picture of who you are.

2. Tease her

Always look for an opportunity to joke about her statements or actions. At times, this may sound mean or cruel but it is a super way to ‘bust her balls’ over her silly actions.

Popular ways to tease her verbally include giving her a silly nickname, pointing out nerdy or embarrassing things about her, mocking or mimicking her and accusing her of being sexually aggressive or hitting on you. Be careful and strategize your teases not to offend her.

Man flirting with a woman

3. Use physical teases

Verbal teases should be followed by physical actions. Most physical teases are meant to sound childish but can be beneficial. At times, you may have to do to her some of the things you did on the playground back in fourth grade.

Popular ways to tease her include sticking out your tongue at her, making exaggerated expressions whenever she is talking and pulling your hand away whenever she is giving you a handshake or a high five.

4. Keep her guessing

Women love being in suspense about your feelings towards them. Hinting your feelings to her too quickly will definitely kill the sexual tension that was developing between you. Do not let her realize her possible role in your life too quickly.

5. Escalate the flirtation

Take the conversation to a more real and sexual level once you have established yourself as a fun and flirty guy. If not careful, you are likely to turn into one of those funny and flirty friends she meets with regularly. Let her visualize you more as a guy she is likely to get intimate with rather than pass time. Becoming more physical is the easiest way to achieve this. This involves things like holding eye contact with her long enough, getting closer to her and holding her hand in a more sensual manner.

With the above steps, any man should find it easier gaining the attention of a woman and flirt with her successfully.

Unmasking the Mystery of Approaching Beautiful Women

Every single man has been there. We see and meet beautiful women every day. We get nervous and sometimes stand frozen trying hard to think about what to say to a beautiful woman. We helplessly watch the beautiful woman walk away. Many men can attest to the fact that the prospect of walking up to a beautiful woman and talking to her can be quite daunting. We know of friends who would not flinch even at gun point but meeting a new woman is a whole new situation to them. The kind of men who would rather run miles on a broken leg than meet a new beautiful woman.

Though fate may have favored you by doing all that is necessary to bring the exact girl at the exact place that you are at the exact time that you happen to be there, the fact remains that it is now your time to take action. What action do you take? Do you stare at her hoping she will come over and talk to her? Do you act the loser and offer to buy her a drink then go home poorer? The answer is NO! That is not the way to meet a beautiful woman. Here is how to approach a beautiful woman.

You OPEN her. What! The “opener” is that line used to initiate a conversation. It is often the very first sentence that is exchanged between a man and the woman he desires. You have heard of “pick-up lines”. They are forms of openers and can be anything that gets the beautiful woman talking.

Why is an opener so important? An opener is like a door key. To put it simply, if you don’t OPEN her, you are probably never going to see her again. The probability of you getting into any form of relationship is almost zero. Through an opener you can further an interaction that can culminate into a relationship. There are many threads from the opener for you to follow and your options can only be limited by your beliefs and social skills.

Start the conversation RIGHT by showing interest and flirting. If you do not do it the right way, you will not go anywhere. Opening a woman is not only knowing what to say but also showing interest in her. The words you say must be complemented good timing and body language and speaking with the right tone.

Timing is very important in every aspect of life. You can’t do anything at any time. This can not be more true when approaching women. The general rule of the thumb says that the quicker you can approach her after noticing her, the better. Avoid taking too much time before talking to her as you will start talking yourself out of the target and get tempted to stay in your comfort zone.

Body language says so much about a person. Bad body language sends signals to the beautiful woman that the man is weak or not confident and is a major turn off. When you wake up, do so at an angle and don’t approach her dead on.

Though most men like walking to her in a straight line, this only causes her defenses to rise. There’s no need to make your work harder. Turn your body slightly to soften the confrontation by subtly pointing your shoulder at the target.

Finally, maintain a smile and use a soft tone. How to approach a beautiful woman will not be your problem any more. Good luck!