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Behind Closed Doors
The Inside Story of life in the Exclusive Brethren Church
by
Ngaire Thomas

Are embittered ex-members and the media painting the wrong picture of the Exclusive Brethren Church?

What is the REAL story?

Would anyone be able to join this exclusive group of strict fundamentalist Christians?

What goes on in those mysterious  windowless buildings?

This is an intriguing first hand account of one family's experience as the author takes us behind closed doors, and gives us a glimpse of what life was like growing up in an Exclusive Brethren community, and tells us in plain non-judgemental style how hard it was for the family to eventually adapt to life on the outside.



A Message from the Author

The plea "Tell me a story", has been echoed down through the ages from children and adults alike because storytelling is a useful way of conveying imagery of a bygone era.  Some of my early memories are from stories passed down from parents and grandparents while others come from actual happenings and are etched forever on my mind.  No two people's memories are quite the same even between those who were exposed to the same events that caused the memories.  I don't expect others to have exactly the same recollections of growing up Exclusive Brethren as I remember it, but some of their experiences will be similar.

Although some of this book is told in a story telling genre, it is not dramatized or exaggerated.  At times I have used a dialogue style of writing to help convey the type of language used in this particular cultural environment.  It is written in the past tense because I left the Exclusive Brethren in 1974 and some of their attitudes may have changed since then.

I wrote this book for many different reasons:

* Because everyone has the right to record and publish their personal memoirs without fear of being censured or sued by wealthy groups or individuals.

* For the interest of future generations.

* Because I hope to break the cycle of fear and intimidation experienced by many ex-Brethren.

* To record the history and evolution of a microcosmic part of society that had it's beginnings in the early 1800s and is still strong today.

* To satisfy the curiosity of all those people who have asked me "What was it like being an Exclusive Brethren?"

 

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